Honeymoon
After months of planning, finally the wedding day arrives
and the beginning of your life as a married couple.
Exciting, right? Well, I'll admit that leaving the
reception was actually a little strange. Lorena and I had
been dating for three years and in the last several months
we had been together nearly every day but never as
husband and wife. We dropped by the church briefly as I
had left the car there. We chatted briefly with
some friends who were rearranging the church and
who encouraged us to enjoy our honeymoon. We had set
the wedding time for the afternoon so that we could avoid
getting to the hotel too late but we still ended up leaving a
bit later than planned. Our first night hotel was close
to the church but I hadn't even told my fiancee which
hotel we would be staying in.
We arrived at the nearby Doral Golf Resort &
Spa hotel and considering the class of hotel I sort of
expected to see someone outside to help with our luggage.
Noone. How odd I thought. So I left my bride at the
entrance (still dressed in her wedding gown), parked the car
and brought the remaining bags. We entered and there
was no reception. Interesting. Obviously we were in
the wrong place. So we looked for help. Fortunately
after a few moments, a hotel employee arrived on a
golf cart and he took us to the real entrance.
We had mistakenly passed by it and ended up at another
building which hosted banquets. We entered the reception
area still dressed in our wedding attire. The
sensation was a little odd as the other hotel
guests congratulated us. The reception informed us
that because it was our honeymoon they were upgrading our room
to the best rooms in the hotel - at the spa WOW!
Ten to fifteen minutes later we arrived at our room. I
had ordered a bouquet of flowers and rose petals for the
room and when we entered I was sort of stunned. What
happened? There was a mixup about the flowers which I
thought I had settled the day prior to the wedding. I
spoke with the gentleman who escorted us in about the
flowers, then recalled that our room had been upgraded and
thought perhaps that was the issue. He called someone and
it turned out that was the case - the flowers were in the other
room! So I had to make a decision on the spot. Do
we stay here without the flowers (which I paid more than
$100 for) in the nicer spa room or do we go to the other
room where the flowers are? But he offered another
solution. If we could leave the room momentarily, the
hotel could send someone to get them and rearrange the
room. I said, "Let's do that." So I had to convince
my bride that even though it was kind of late and we had just
arrived, let's go for a brief walk. So we were seated in
the reception of the spa area of the resort while she was on
the phone with her family and two individuals entered.
One was carrying a bouquet of flowers and another had a plastic
bag!!! Oh no! I immediately recognized who they were so I
covered my wife's eyes while she was probably thinking, "What
on earth is going on?" I was able to see them as they
walked toward our room and then again when they finally
left. I then told my wife in Spanish, "Let's
go."
We live in the Miami/Fort Lauderdale area and got married
during hurricane season. Our original plan was to spend
our first night in Miami, then spend several days in the
Florida Keys and finally a few days in Naples, Florida.
But one thing you need to learn when planning a wedding is to
be flexible and adapt as unplanned events occur. Because
we were so wrapped up in the wedding details we didn't pay
much attention to the weather the final few days. Someone
told us at the reception that there was a
hurricane heading toward the Keys. So the next
morning before heading out we checked the news. The storm
was a good distance away from the Islamorada Key where we were
headed but we decided to stay in Miami an extra day just to
play it safe. The hotel let us stay in the same room at
the same rate. Great deal! The next day the
hurricane approached the Keys and there was a mandatory
evacuation. Had we headed to the Keys on Sunday we would
have had to have evacuated and that would have really changed
our honeymoon. We were fine at a great resort even
though it was in Miami. We kept abreast of the news
but by the time we were able to actually leave we had spent
four nights in Miami. At least I had chosen a really nice
hotel for that first night! But it was kind of weird
given that we were familiar with the area. Thus, we
pretty much had to stay inside the resort to preserve the
integrity of the honeymoon.
Despite the weather we were able to make it to our Florida
Keys hotel to spend a couple of days in the Keys and then make
it to Naples for another two-day stay. The Keys are
a nice place to relax but Naples is definitely a place you need
to visit.
A few additional notes...
-Even though the newlywed couple should enjoy a few
activities, don't try to plan too much. Relax.
-If you plan a jetski trip, don't let seaweed fill up the
motor or if the jetski slows, don't keep pushing it.
We had a scary experience trying to get back to shore as
the motor started to smoke, we had to shut it off, I had to
jump off the jetski some 100 yards offshore, reach under
the motor and pull that stuff out.
-Resort hotel restaurants are particularly expensive for
dinner. Take advantage of the breakfast buffets but
go out for the other meals.
-Take as many pictures as you can but learn how to use the
delay flash mode before the honeymoon!
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